After 4 months being in the "real" world, I have come up with the conclusion that life is mainly about, MONEY and SEX. Now, where is the LOVE?
I'm always the center of attraction and it irritates me. Why is everyone so interested about my life? There are certainly bigger problems other people are facing right now, such as those Filipinos greatly devastated with the non-stop rain that caused man-high flood. However, this problem has been bugging me for years now.
Everywhere I go, questions seem to be endless, like if I have a girlfriend, if I'm still a virgin, if I am open for one-night stands, or if I swung the other way. Then a viral song comes to my mind, "Hey I just met you, and this is crazy, why ask so many questions, just shut up maybe..." And all of them asking questions are girls.
We certainly live in a generation where (some?) girls don't wait for their Romeos and princes; girls hunt them. When I was in college, I could no longer count how many girls have courted me. Yes, they were many and I rejected them, politely. Some took it with a smile and some took it with a grudge that they start creating stories about me. At first, it was quite troublesome for people murmuring things when you pass by, but I have learned the art of ignoring. Consequently, the more you ignore them, the more they become interested in you...tested and proven.
And now, office mates seem to be no different with girls in the university. They become sweet and kind when I'm around and immediately become ridiculously talkative when they thought I'm not looking. It makes me laugh thinking about it.
Here's the deal. I don't believe in courtship, I am for DESTINY. I don't like developed love, I am for love at first sight. I am not for friend-for-years then becomes a couple, I am for strangers finding each other in a sea of people. I am not for the quantity of relationships, I am for quality. I am not for collect and select, I am for one and only. I am not for premarital sex, I am for baby making.
People call me stupid for not "eating" what has been already offered. But I say, I'm not hungry. Oooh, I really hate the aftermath of watching these comedy-love stories. They make me hopeless romantic, shit!
PS This is just limited in my area. Cultures, beliefs, and stands may vary so don't generalize. Thanks!